Q&A Pentecostals (Apostolic) Part Two

20 Apr
Q&A Pentecostals (Apostolic) Part Two

Hi Everyone! It’s been almost a year since Part One was posted (  and we’ve had a great response to it! We’ve got many more questions that have come in so I’ll do my best to answer them here and hopefully I’ll be able to get them sorted better in the future so they’ll be easier to read and sort through! (In the meantime, if you’re looking for a specific word or topic, use the search bar to the right. It will search all my posts for that specific word.)

Here we go!

Is Pentecostal and Apostolic the same?

Those of us who are Apostolic Pentecostals use the term interchangeably but not technically. To be Pentecostal means to believe that what happened on the day of Pentecost in the Book of Acts still applies to today. In other words, you believe that people still speak in tongues and that the church still has and uses the gifts of the Spirit (healings, miracles, etc). But not all Pentecostals are Apostolic.

To be Apostolic means you adhere to the teachings of the Apostles (much like Lutherans adhere to Martin Luther’s teachings, Wesleyans adhere to John Wesley’s teachings, etc). Now before I move on, let me clarify something: a lot of Christians will say, “Well I’m just a Christian because I only follow Christ.” Great comment, but let me elaborate on Apostolics. Of course we follow what Christ taught. That’s why we’re also called Christians. But Jesus gave Peter the keys to the kingdom (in other words, He told Peter what to preach once He resurrected and went back to Heaven, so people in the New Testament church would know what the plan of salvation was–the people ask this in Acts 2:37 and Peter tells them in Acts 2:38 and 2:39). Jesus also walked closely and taught the Disciples (who would later be called Apostles along with Paul and others) what they ought to teach others and how they ought to win them to Him. So what the Apostles taught was Jesus’ doctrine.

Sadly, over time people have decided that certain verses in the Bible don’t apply to us today and that is why different denominations have formed. When we say we are Apostolic, it means we still adhere to what the Apostles taught in the Bible–which is exactly what Jesus taught. They do not contradict at all. So we do not agree that what the Bible says is necessary is not applicable today. If Jesus told the Disciples/Apostles to teach it–it applies.

So, the Apostles taught that what happened at Pentecost was the salvation experience–and we still follow it today–which is what makes us Pentecostal and Apostolic. So you could say all Apostolics are Pentecostal: if they follow what the Apostles taught, they believe in the Pentecostal experience. But not all Pentecostals are Apostolic. For example, many denominations who are Pentecostal (Assemblies of God, for example) do not teach that baptism is required for salvation–but Jesus and the Apostles taught this. So they would not be considered Apostolic.

How can I find an Apostolic church near me?

The best way is to google “Apostolic Pentecostal Church” along with your city name. Keep in mind that not all results will be actual Apostolic churches, so if you find one, do your research. Do they have a website or Facebook page that has their church description or doctrinal statement on it? You can also look through various Apostolic Organization pages. Here’s a page that lists several Apostolic organizations. I am not familiar with all of them, so again, do your research. But it’s a start:

What do Pentecostals wear?

Clothes 🙂 Seriously though, we buy our clothes from the same stores everybody else does. In a nutshell, girls and women wear skirts and dresses, men wear pants. A majority of Pentecostal churches also dress to a degree of modesty, so high necklines, longer sleeves, longer length on skirts and pants/shorts. We also don’t wear jewelry and makeup because verses in the Bible teach us to dress with modesty and sobriety/shamefacedness, not with pearls and gold… for a more in depth answers please visit the Q&A page 1 I linked to at the beginning of the article.

Why are Apostolic people not nice?

I hope this isn’t a genuine question! Most of us are, but keep in mind that just like everybody else in the world some people have off days or may be going through difficult times in their life. No excuse to not be nice to people, but please don’t judge an entire group of people due to a small few!

Can Pentecostals read people?

Generally speaking, no. Some people, Pentecostal or not, may have a general ability to sense when a person might be up to no good (women’s intuition? vibes? haha), and some people might have the gift of discernment as mentioned in the Bible, but no, Pentecostals don’t have some special ability to read people.

Do Pentecostals drink?

No; the only exception being that some churches use wine instead of grape juice for communion.

Why should I go to a Pentecostal church?

The best answer I can give to this one can be summed up in my post Why I Left the Apostolic Church – in this post I give my testimony as to why I stopped going to one to begin with, and why, after several years of studying different religions and Christian denominations, came to realize that to this day, I have not found a single other denomination that preaches the whole Bible. This is why I am Apostolic/Pentecostal and would not consider any other denomination. I encourage you to compare any church you are considering attending with the Bible’s teaching. If they are saying that something isn’t necessary but the Bible says it is, time to find a new church.

Do Pentecostal women shave their legs?

Yes. When the Bible talks about women not cutting their hair it is very specific that it is talking about the hair on her head; not her legs, underarms, etc. Now, I am sure there might be someone out there in the nearly 8 billion people in the world who might not shave because of these verses, but as a general rule, yes, we shave.

Do Pentecostals wear jewelry?

The answer to this varies depending on the church. Overall, no. We don’t wear necklaces, bracelets, piercings, etc. The only variation is that some Pentecostals will wear “jewelry with a purpose”. In other words, some are okay with wearing watches or wedding bands, as long as they do not contradict the Bible’s teachings to not wear gold, pearls and costly array. Some churches do no jewelry at all, some do just watches, and some do basic wedding bands (because some women feel that it would be the appearance of evil to be pregnant or have children but not wear one, thus looking like she was pregnant out of wedlock).

Do Holiness Pentecostals believe that women shouldn’t be pastors?

The majority thought is that God’s intended purpose is that it should be a man because the Bible says a bishop should be the husband of one wife. That said, the Bible also shows that God does not believe women to be a lesser sex and that in many cases if no man steps up to the plate, He will use a woman. For this reason, it’s not uncommon to see churches in countries outside the USA with woman pastors. I know a missionary to India who says there are several woman pastors because there just aren’t men in the villages who are living for God. However, as God’s intended purpose, when a man does step up to the plate, the woman is fine putting the leadership of the church into his hands. In the USA you aren’t likely to see as many female pastors because we have many male preachers to fill these roles. And, of course, like with many things, you may always meet a person who doesn’t agree with this view–some believe a woman can be a pastor no matter what, and some believe women should not be a pastor under any circumstances. The answer I give is just the general rule I have observed being Apostolic in the United States.

Where can I find a good Pentecostal man?

Church is the best place! If you are single don’t lose heart! I married a bit older than most of my friends, but God had the perfect one in mind! And it was actually his pastor’s wife who introduced us! If you are interested in finding someone to eventually get married, definitely don’t be shy if friends or church leadership knows somebody–oftentimes people go to meetings or visit other churches and the good man you are praying for may just be a town over (or as was my case, a state over).

Why don’t Pentecostal women wear makeup?

It is true that you won’t find a verse in the Bible that says makeup is a sin. The reason we don’t wear it because the few times it is mentioned in the Bible it is done so in a negative light. Jeremiah 4:30 and II Kings 9:30 are two examples. I Timothy 2:9 and I Peter 3:3 talk about modest appearance. But what about Esther? Someone can correct me if I’m wrong, but I’ve read Esther and do not recall seeing anywhere that she wore makeup. I do see that she used ointments and spices, so I’m not led to believe that it’s wrong to wear perfumes or use skin and hair products. These are completely fine. It’s colored products (the Bible calls it painting your face) that we don’t wear.

How do Apostolics keep from checking out women?

They’re not written by an Apostolic but I would recommend the books Every Man’s Battle and/or Every Young Man’s Battle (I believe the main difference is one is directed towards married men, the other at unmarried men). They discuss what they call “Bouncing the Eyes”. Pretty much it is where you teach yourself to automatically look away when you see something that is causing you to lust. I’m not a man so I cannot attest to everything in the book, but my understanding is that it is pretty straightforward in giving men ideas to help. If you are struggling with pornography, I want to encourage you that God is a forgiver and can help you overcome. I am in no way affiliated with them, but I am a strong supporter of Covenant Eyes, an internet filtering company. For a small monthly fee they allow you pick accountability partners who will get a weekly email with a list of sites that you visited. This helps you to not look at pornographic or questionable sites. It also filters photos and sites and features a “panic” button that you can push if you’re feeling tempted. What happens when you push it is that it temporarily disables your internet until you call (24 hours a day availability) and speak with someone. They will talk with you and pray with you until the temptation passes and then re-enable your internet.

I am Pentecostal; how do I know God is with me?

Because the Bible says so. He promised us that He would never leave or forsake us. Sometimes it might not feel like it, though, especially when things go wrong. But this is why the Bible says the heart is deceitful. We can’t trust our emotions because they aren’t truth. When you start to feel like He isn’t there, pick up your Bible and be encouraged by it.

Do Pentecostal women date?

Yes. Most do so with the purpose of marriage in mind, so sometimes they’ll refer to it as courting. It’s the same with Pentecostal men. So it’s most likely that if you are interested, you’ll start by just being friends and talking, and then if you guys see potential in your relationship, dating will come.

I’m a former UPC member and I hate them.

Not really a question but I’ll briefly address this. Ask yourself why. I’ll be honest with you: the reason I left the Apostolic church when I was a teen was because of church hurt. Somebody who claimed to be Apostolic didn’t exactly act it, and it turned my whole family away from God. My family ended up hating the church and believing they were all hypocrites and woman abusers, etc etc. I was almost convinced  as well but knew that I had a bunch of people in the church who genuinely loved me and loved God. I couldn’t believe that they were all like this specific person. So a few years later I went back, and found that they really weren’t all like that. My family let the actions of one person dictate their entire relationship with God. They also misunderstood a few things about some people and ended up very bitter about them. Years later I revisited these people to find out that these misunderstandings were completely wrong, and that those specific people desperately tried to help us. Two of my family members have since returned to God as well, coming to the conclusion that most Apostolics are genuinely good people. My guess is that you’ve had a bad experience. I strongly encourage you to ask yourself why you hate them and what happened to cause this. Then ask yourself if it was just a specific situation or person, and if it is really worth the hate and bitterness and stumbling block between you and God. I found out that it wasn’t worth it.

Apostolic lady doesn’t want to wear skirts anymore.

Again not a question but I’ll address this. Why not? What is it about skirts that makes you not want to wear them? Is it because you don’t see a biblical reason to do so? I encourage you to speak with your pastor or a trusted church friend, and especially study the Bible. Is it because you feel they restrict what you can do? I’ve worn skirts most of my life, and they have never been in the way. When I play sports I merely put a pair of workout capris under it so I’m modest. It’s too cold in the wintertime? With the way leggings and tights are making a comeback, these are simple ways to stay warm and modest, and looking like a lady. With so many reasons why you might not want to, it’s hard to give an answer but definitely think these questions might be a good start.

Why don’t Apostolics want to associate with other Christians?

I haven’t experienced this first hand, so I’m not sure I have a good answer. I have many friends, both Apostolic and not. It was my experience upon getting back into the Apostolic church that it was other people who didn’t want to hang with me. They felt that because I no longer wanted to drink, go to nightclubs, watch movies, etc that we had nothing in common. They felt like I couldn’t have fun anymore. What they didn’t realize is that I feel like I have more fun than ever now. I learned to play music, spend more time being active, volunteering, going on trips and more. Some of my Christian but non-Apostolic friends felt that because I wore skirts all the time that I judge them because they don’t. It’s not the case. I do believe it’s biblical (as well as other things I follow in the Bible) but I’m not going to cut off a friendship because they don’t. I’m not sure what the specific circumstance is regarding the people you have in mind, but generally speaking Apostolics aren’t standoffish to other people.

Why is the Pentecostal Church a cult?

It’s not. I actually wrote a paper on this when I was in college and taking a class that discussed cults. Cults usually have a leader that demands 100% unquestioning authority but has no authority him/herself, tries to separate people from their families, usually requires people to spend most of their time doing things as part of the cult and is highly focused on money, they tell their members not to read negative stuff about their group, members are encouraged to only associate with other members, they usually have extrabiblical authority if it’s a Christian group, and more.

Some people will say we’re a cult just because we speak in tongues (which is odd, given that the Bible is 100% for it, both as a sign of Holy Ghost infilling and as a gift of the Spirit–and also instructs us to not forbid people to speak in tongues). They also think we’re legalists because we follow a holiness lifestyle–they don’t understand that we live this way because we want to, not because we are forced. But to address the cult characteristics I listed, Apostolic pastors are supposed to have authority in their lives. They ought to have a pastor and/or elders whom they submit to. I’ve always been taught by my own pastor that if you ever end up in a church where the pastor says he needs no authority or God is his only authority, get a new church. Apostolics also don’t encourage people to separate from theirs families–on the contrary we support strong families and teach what the Bible teaches–if you have an unbelieving spouse you are to stay with them and be an example to them.

We also have no desire to be cut off from family and friends–in fact, it’s the opposite. We’re huge people persons and instead of pushing people away, we’d rather be closer to people so they can see Jesus through us and hopefully come to Him as well. Our churches also don’t require us to be only at the church or only associate with church people. We have jobs, activities and friends outside the church. My church hosts a homeless feed with a local Lutheran church, my husband and I offer volunteer work to secular organizations, etc. Our churches also aren’t money focused: while we do teach the Biblical principle of tithing and giving offerings, we don’t expect people to pour all their money into the church or give up their necessities and wants as well. You’re not likely to see any megachurch millionaire pastors (although my opinion is, if he worked for it why not). Many of our pastors work a job outside of pastoring to pay his bills and help with church bills. I come from a pastor’s home and have seen mine give their own money to help people with their bills, lose their own homes for the church, etc.

So if someone tries to tell you we’re a cult, trust me, we’re not! We don’t fit the description at all!

Can Apostolics who have sinned come back?

Of course! Hosea is a wonderful book to read about this. It’s a type of the believer. No matter how many times you mess up, God will always forgive you if you repent! Our churches rejoice when someone comes back to God–it is seriously a very happy moment for us. just like the prodigal father, when we see someone walk away from God we are devastated but know that they have to live for God themselves. So we pray for their return and then when we see them come back it is a true joy!

Are you associated with the Apostolic United Brethren polygamist church?

No. No. No. They are a Mormon sect. Apostolics are completely against plural marriage.

How do you know if you’re in love if you’re Apostolic?

The same way as anybody else I guess. Does how you feel towards the person line up with the biblical teaching of what love is? That would be the best measure. I Corinthians 13 is a great chapter to read about love. Song of Solomon also talked about spousal love.

I grew up Apostolic but am now Baptist; something is making me want to go back to Apostolic.

While I believe Baptists do genuinely love God, they are not preaching the full truth (at least the official church doctrinal statement isn’t) . If you are feeling convicted to come back to your Apostolic roots, I encourage you to follow that. When you do, you will realize what it is that you were missing.

What does the Pentecostal church think of a quiet, unfazed female?

I’m going to guess you mean someone who isn’t super outgoing or very demonstrative in praise? We realize that people have different personalities. At my old church there was a lady who was super dear to me (still is) but she was as shy as they come. Well, her 2 oldest girls were in our kids program and she wanted to help with our summer VBS but absolutely dreaded doing anything that would require her to talk to people. Imagine her fear when she heard we volunteers were going to go out dressed up as cowboys and cowgirls (our theme) and invite the neighborhood kids?! But you know what, she ended up being a HUGE blessing to our program! You know why? Because she used her strength. I didn’t ask her to go out and invite people, or get up in front of the crowd and talk or jump around or do worship. She used her talent to be our photographer. And you know what? She took literally over 1,000 photos for us–top notch, great quality. And we were able to use that for our end of week slideshow during our VBS block party and to send the kids home with a picture of themselves. Here was this quiet lady who only really talked in a one-on-one situation, and here she comes blowing us away with her mad photo skills! God gave us all strengths. Maybe yours isn’t being up front or loud or demonstrative; find your strengths and use them for God! (Oh, and PS, I know Apostolic girls are typically thought of as being in frou frou dresses, dainty, and having huge hairstyles haha but we’re not all like that. Yes, I like to dress up and have pretty hair, but truthfully, I’m the one who will kick off my heels and go play volleyball in my church clothes, throw my hair in a pony tail and go for a hike, etc etc. I just went to a demolition derby two days ago! There’s no one-size-fits-all Pentecostal girl!)

What does Catholic Apostolic mean?

To the best of my knowledge, Catholics believe that Peter was the first pope and therefore refer to the Catholic church as the true Apostolic church. I think it’s mostly a specific branch or older Catholics who do so, though if we have any Catholic readers you can elaborate in the comments below! Typically when Christianity talks about Apostolics, though, they are referring to Oneness Pentecostals.

Why don’t Apostolic men wear a wedding band?

Apostolics don’t wear jewelry with the exception of it serving a purpose, like a watch or wedding band. Many don’t even feel that a wedding band is necessary–typically just women who feel that being pregnant or having children while appearing unmarried can be “the appearance of evil” which the Bible tells us to avoid. Many Apostolics feel that a wedding band isn’t needed to prove that, so they choose to not wear one.

Do Pentecostals believe in purgatory?


At what stage do Apostolics consider you married?

In the United States marriages must be done legally, so here it would be when you get a marriage license and the officiant performs the ceremony and signs the license. In other countries, your answer would best come from a local Apostolic pastor who can explain how he officiates it.

What is the Holy Ghost?

It is God’s spirit that lives in His believers.

How can we know if we will go to Heaven?

By following what the Bible says. The Bible doesn’t leave us wondering if we are saved or not. It clearly tells us what we need to do to be saved (Acts 2:38) and then how to live after that. As long as you are following the Bible’s plan of salvation and do your best to follow the rest of the Bible as well, you can take heart that God is faithful to keep His promise.

Why are Pentecostals made fun of?

Doesn’t the Bible say that we will be? God never promised us that we wouldn’t be ridiculed, mocked and persecuted. Jesus Himself was. I think it’s largely because living according to God’s Word is so different than what is popular to the rest of the world. When you’re not in church it doesn’t make sense to not give into fleshly desires. It doesn’t make sense to dress modestly or live holy. People also don’t understand why we get so excited about God, or what in the world tongues is. That’s largely why I make posts like this one, so people can get answers about the whys from an actual Pentecostal, as opposed to the pages made by people who left the church and are disgruntled with it or people who think they understand what we do but really don’t.

How does one become saved in an Apostolic church?

Only the way the Bible says. When Nicodemus asked Jesus what must he do to be saved, Jesus told him that he had to be born of the water and Spirit. It wasn’t a recommendation or suggestion. It was a must. Some people debate this and say being born of the water is a natural baby birth, and that being born of the Spirit happens when you “accept Jesus as your savior”. Here’s why that’s not true. Jesus gave Peter the “keys to kingdom”–in Acts 2 when Peter was preaching, the people asked what they must do, and he said, repent, be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. When all the people received the Holy Ghost it wasn’t when they first believed; in fact, in Acts 19 there was a whole group of Christians who hadn’t even heard of the Holy Ghost! They also all got rebaptized in the name of Jesus because their first baptism wasn’t done that way! Sadly, many churches today preach that baptism is optional, they don’t do it in the name of Jesus, and they tell people that the Holy Ghost infilling happens when you just believe. That is all contradictory to the Bible. At an Apostolic church, we preach that the way people were saved in the early church is still how people are saved today. Peter said in Acts 2:39 that’s how it would be.

Why can’t Pentecostals go to parties?

We can. If a Pentecostal you know turned one down, it’s probably because of something going on at that party that they don’t want to be involved in, like drinking, dancing to music that glorifies sex, drugs, or other ungodly things, etc. Otherwise, we don’t have anything against parties.

When do Apostolics feel it is time to reach the poor?

Now. We don’t discriminate on who we invite to church and many churches support or run programs to help the poor. My church helps run a homeless/community feed and our youth group has done projects where we gather hygiene supplies and make bags for low income and homeless people. The other Apostolic church in my town runs (or did run–I think they still do) an addiction help program. Another friend’s church does community programs where they give school supplies to low income students, hygiene products and food as well, etc. God instructs us to do these things and many of our churches are stepping up!

If a church doesn’t believe in speaking in tongues should I join it?

No. The Bible says not to forbid people to speak in tongues. Also, many churches confuse the gift of tongues (that should have an interpretation) with tongues as the initial evidence of being filled with the Holy Ghost and that can also be done in corporate worship and private prayer time. If a church doesn’t believe in tongues they are preaching against the very sign that the Bible says will accompany all believers when they are filled with the Spirit,

Has anyone else had a bad experience with an Apostolic church?

I had a problem with someone in an Apostolic church–but don’t confuse a problem you have with somebody with a having a problem with the church. People are people and people hurt people sometimes. It’s not a whole church and it’s definitely not God. I learned how to overcome that. I definitely don’t have all the answers but I encourage you to read some of my posts; I’ve written some of my testimony in them.

What are different names for Apostolics?

We’re also known as Pentecostals, Oneness Pentecostals, Jesus Only, Holiness Pentecostals, Apostolic Pentecostals, and the UPC (the UPCI is the largest Apostolic Pentecostal group and generally people call all of us UPC people, although not all of us belong to that organization. My church doesn’t belong to the UPCI, but we associate with churches who do).

I will be listing a Q&A part three soon. If you have a question you’d like answered please comment in the box below. As with all of my posts, I do not approve any comments that speak negatively of a person or church, and I do not approve comments that state “facts” that are not supported by the Bible. I do encourage question asking though, so if you have a genuine question or don’t understand something, please feel free to ask!


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15 responses to “Q&A Pentecostals (Apostolic) Part Two

  1. Tamara

    December 13, 2015 at 7:54 pm

    I have recently started going to an apostolic one God church and I loved going but I’m having some second thoughts about it I’m used to be so involved with worship and prayer but it’s slowly died down and I’ve been baptized just no holy ghost yet will I ever get it?if you could help that would be amazing!?

    • The Land Called Beulah

      December 18, 2015 at 3:50 pm

      Hi Tamara,
      Have you spoken with your pastor yet about why you haven’t received the Holy Ghost? I don’t know you personally so I can’t say, but I do know it is a promise made to all of us and that if you keep living for God He will bless you with it. I’ve known people in the past who have struggled with receiving it, and usually it’s because they believe they have to be better before God will give it to them. That’s so far from the truth! The Holy Ghost helps us get better–we don’t get better to get it! I also know sometimes people don’t because they are holding a part of themselves back. Maybe there is something they don’t want to give to God just yet. I strongly encourage you to talk to your pastor–he will have some good insight! Don’t give up on living for God or going to church–you want to be in a church where people will pray with you and encourage you to seek the Holy Ghost. If you leave church or go to a church that doesn’t preach the New Testament plan of salvation, you will definitely struggle, especially if the pastor isn’t preaching truth. Also, have you thought about why your prayer and worship have been dying out? Are you struggling to pray? Giving in to things that might pull your attention away from God? Sometimes an honest evaluation of ourselves can help us see where we are lacking and what we need to do to get back on track. Hang in there, keep praying and living for God and I will be praying for you too! I look forward to hearing from you again!

    • Brian

      April 11, 2016 at 1:28 pm

      Hi Tamara, My name is Brian, and I have received. Remember to keep all your focus on God. I would love to hear your story since your last post. Once you have, ask the Holy Ghost about gifts. It is in 1 Corinthians 12-13-14.

  2. Catelyn Marie Griffin

    September 10, 2015 at 5:27 pm

    I received the Holy Ghost last June and since then my life has changed… but my husband who was raised in the apostolic church has a problem with me going to church… he claims he liked the way I was before I got into church… I don’t know what I am supposed to do or say every time he bashes me about going to church. Can you give me some insight please on how to explain to him my reasoning for going to church? Whenever he asks why I go to church I always tell him that because I want to and that I enjoy going… it makes him mad and he thinks I am lying to him…

    • The Land Called Beulah

      September 28, 2015 at 11:22 am

      Hi Catelyn, Since your husband grew up in church but doesn’t like it anymore, I am going to assume that he might have had a negative experience. Has he ever shared any hurts about it with you? Your going to church might make some old hurts or bitterness rise up in him, making him angry that you’re going. If he was just a backslider who decided he didn’t want to live for God anymore, you being in church might be making him feel convicted about not going, thus again making him angry.

      I Peter 3:1 says, “Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;” Some people might think that “being subject” means you do whatever he says and stop going to church but that is not the case! It might be difficult if he is giving you a hard time, but do your best to live godly around him and your conversation–or lifestyle–might win him over as he begins to see the positive changes in you and he may choose to change himself.

      I encourage you to stand strong regardless of his response, though. It is hard, but you’re not alone in this. I was not married at the time I decided to get back into church (I went as a kid, my family backslid, and I decided to go back as soon as I was old enough to go on my own). I got kicked out of the house and my family disowned me. It was hard, but I knew living for God the Apostolic way was the only way. God blessed me with a family who took me in and called me their own, and, nearly 11 years later, both my mother and sister are back in church! It seemed impossible that they would ever get back in, especially since people hated the fact that I was back in church, but God worked on them and changed their hearts til they came back too.

      Have you ever heard of Sis. Dedie Cooley? She spoke at a women’s conference I attended once and told the story about how when she was a kid her father hated the fact that her mother took them to church. He went so far as to shoot at the car’s tires when they tried to go! The car undriveable, her mom and them walked to the neighbors to get a ride to church. She said despite the hard time her father gave her mother, she never stopped taking them. You are not alone in this!

      Stand strong and I will pray with you that God will turn your husband’s heart around and give you the strength in the meantime!

  3. Rita Rutherford Hartmann

    August 18, 2015 at 9:18 am

    Thank you so much, I was just recently baptized in the Apostolic church. My fathers family was from Arkansas and we’re all raised in the apostolic church. My father died when I was very young & my mother didn’t follow in that religion. When I grew up & got married I married into a catholic family & as you probably know they insist that you join their church or at least sign papers that you will raise your children catholic. So I became a catholic, raised 3 of my 4 children in the Catholic Church. When I had my last son I was older & I had decided I didn’t want to make that decision for him. Of course my mother n law wasn’t too happy, but by then I had more of a mind of my own. Now my other children don’t attend the Catholic Church on their own, & my youngest son has found his way. He had a friend at school that invited him to visit his church. It was an apostolic church. What a difference it has made in my sons life!!! Really in all our life’s. My son was baptized in that church a year later. He found a wonderful church where he goes to college & now I have been going with my husband (my children’s stepfather). I was just baptized last month. Isn’t funny how God works? There are so many things I thought that were impossible to work out, and there still are a lot of things that need to be worked on, but with Gods grace now in my life I know anything is possible!!!

  4. Stefanie

    July 5, 2015 at 10:24 pm

    I wear skirts in my everyday life however I just accepted a a job in a prison we are not permitted to wear skirts. I believe God opened All the doors that needed to be open for me to accept this position. It has fear pay and benefits to support my family. Recently someone said it was wrong for me to accept this position because I have to wear nursing scrub pants to work? Am I sinning?

    • The Land Called Beulah

      September 28, 2015 at 1:19 pm

      Hi Stefanie, anything that would require us to go against the Word of God is sin. I have several friends who are nurses who wear scrub skirts and they are acceptable by their employers. This site ( sells scrub skirts. Don’t let your job dictate your walk with God–God will bless you if you follow what you know to be right–and if you’re asking, you are probably already doubting if it is ok. James 4:17 says, “Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.”


    June 29, 2015 at 4:50 pm

    Thank you

  6. Gary Kuykendall

    June 29, 2015 at 4:21 pm

    A member in my church brought a message in tongues last night, this person is a great Christion and has given messages in tongues before and they were always interpreted, last night is the first time there was no interpretation, why would that happen. I believe that the person that gave the message is a real Man of God. Help me understand.

    • NessaLeigh

      June 29, 2015 at 4:36 pm

      Hi Gary,
      Typically when this happens it is because the person who had the interpretation did not give it. The reasons may vary, but the two times I’ve seen this happen were because the persons who felt they had the interpretation doubted if they really did, got scared, and decided not to speak it. Your pastor likely has insight on what happened and I encourage you to speak with him.

  7. rosa

    May 6, 2015 at 4:50 am

    Why don’t you cut your hair? Do you get trims or think it is wrong? I understand the verses in 1 Corinthians 11, but it doesn’t say you shouldn’t cut your hair it says you should have long hair. You can trim your hair and it will still be long. Shorn and shaven are used, which both mean “to shave” not cut, so yes it is wrong to have your head shaved/ short like a man, but I am not understanding where the not cutting at all comes from.

    • NessaLeigh

      May 6, 2015 at 9:07 am

      Verse 6 says “shorn or shaven” so we can conclude that they are two different things. “Shorn” is the past participle of “shear” which means to cut or trim.

      Think about a bush–you can shear it but it’s branches can still be long, right? So it is with our hair. But if someone tells you not to shear that bush, whether you leave the branches long or not, if you shear them they are shorn.

      When the Bible talks about long hair in these verses it is not referring to the length but that it is uncut. Think about it–some women (like some Jamaican women or some other women of color) will never be able to grow hair beyond just their scalp. Their hair just doesn’t grow long. Does that mean her head is dishonored because her hair is short? Not at all. On the other hand, another woman can grow her hair to her ankles. Does that mean the one with longer hair is more spiritual? No! If the woman whose hair never grows more than a few inches has never cut her hair, then she is not shaven or shorn, and therefore has followed the Bible. However, if the woman whose hair is down to her ankles trims it–while yes, she may have long hair, she is shorn, and therefore has dishonored her head.

      Today, many Christians will just say, “Oh, shorn doesn’t mean cut” because they want to say a standard set by the Bible is legalism and “a work”. It’s not convenient. But whether one agrees with it or not, we cannot change the definition. The Bible says it is a shame if a woman be shorn or shaven–so whether we trim it or shave it all off–it is still a shame, and that’s why we choose to not cut or trim it.

    • NessaLeigh

      May 23, 2015 at 10:58 am

      Hi Rosa, I got your second reply. There is a book called Covered with Love by Lori Wagner that I have heard is phenomenal in explaining the biblical mandates for hair. I have yet to read it but have heard many say it’s good. I think I’ll download it today and read it. Will you do the same and then maybe we can discuss it after?

  8. iyemdenise

    April 21, 2015 at 1:44 am

    Reblogged this on Denise Muriel.


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